“Each and every person living on the planet has a unique and natural Authentic Self—an eternal presence—that longs to be known, breathed into and lived from."

~ Gavin

My work involves empowering individuals and couples into Soul-inspired authenticity, intimacy and leadership

Deepen Your Spiritual Roots & Step into Greater Leadership in Your Life

For over 40 years, I’ve had the privilege of guiding individuals through powerful passages in their lives—helping them uncover their signature strengths, access inner wisdom and naturally embrace a path of genuine fulfillment.

This transformational work is for those with a sincere desire to strengthen their connection with their Authentic Self—their Soul—which allows new levels of insight and courage to emerge and transform their lives. This deeper Self is a multi-dimensional storehouse of love and creativity.

Through one-on-one Spiritual Therapy, Leadership Mentoring, Couples Therapy, and a range of in-person and online programs, I offer structured yet intuitive support as you awaken to new possibilities and step into a more meaningful, spiritually aligned life.

Gavin Frye, Spiritual Therapist & Leadership Mentor

Times of great possibility arrive in everyone's life...

Are you sensing that there’s something more waiting for you in life—more aliveness, more clarity, a more meaningful contribution—yet you’re not sure how to access it? This may be accompanied by some measure of emotional pain. If so, you are not alone.

You may feel as if you’ve hit a plateau, both within yourself and in your external world. You might even sense that your unique gifts are ready to emerge in a more authentic and unbridled way, but the ‘what' and 'how’ feels elusive.

Most of us reach points in our evolutionary journey where we feel an internal shift, a call for deeper fulfillment, to engage more deeply with our inner world. If this resonates with you, you may be standing at a powerful threshold, ready to step into a new phase of your life's expression.

What if this moment, as unsettling as it may seem, is an invitation and entryway to adventure, to move into new levels of awareness, courage and creativity?

This work as a sacred passage...

I have the privilege of guiding individuals like you through profound passages of transition. I carry a deep, intuitive understanding of how to support those who are ready to make a leap forward in their evolution and life.

Working as collaborative partners, together we create a compassionate space where you can identify and let go of any unconscious patterns from the past that no longer serve you. Yet, my approach is not just about healing—it’s about awakening to the deeper energies of who you are—and steadily supporting you as you step into a higher flow of love and authentic leadership in your life.

After decades of wide-ranging professional experience, along with navigating my own challenging and blessed life journey, I’ve come to some core understandings about who we are as human beings and the process of facilitating personal transformation. Here’s what I’ve discovered:

Each of us has a unique and natural Authentic Self, an eternal presence that longs to be known, breathed into, and lived from.
Difficult and painful transitions in life are one of the ways our Authentic Self has of gaining our attention and inviting us into powerful seasons of change and new direction.
We each carry a unique constellation of dreams we’re designed to manifest in this lifetime.
Self-compassion is intimately related to sourcing our creativity. We can embrace vulnerability not as a weakness, but as a powerful ally.

Options for working together...

Spiritual Therapy, which I've been describing above, provides a path of healing while, at the same time, reconnecting with the essence of who you truly are. Often, this process includes assisting my clients to build a compassionate bridge between their love and the parts of themselves they've unconsciously been neglecting. This isn’t about fixing or changing yourself, but about awakening to the profound love, wisdom and compassion already present within you.

Couples Spiritual Therapy supports committed couples in resolving conflicts by releasing limiting patterns—while learning to embrace intimate relationship as a profound pathway for transformation.

Leadership Mentoring is a direct extension of the Spiritual Therapy process—but also provides leaders and soulpreneurs with personalized, grounded support in integrating new levels of empowered leadership in their professional expression. Some of the business arenas that powerfully evolve and expand from deep inner transformation include: identifying newly awakened Soul gifts, stepping into expansive edges of inspired leadership, birthing new products and programs, upleveling one's branding & marketing, etc.

This dynamic work is for conscious leaders and progressive entrepreneurs looking for in-depth support over time—to learn to more deeply trust their inner wisdom as they bring forward a new level of vision, authenticity and aligned work in the world. It's about deepening the connection to your spiritual roots while stepping into wholehearted leadership in service to others.

Only you can choose to open wide and receive the leverage of seasoned support...

My practice is primarily centered upon core clients I work with consistently over time, most often on a weekly basis. I work with individuals and couples from around the world, and they find my transformational work intimate and effective whether conducted in person, over the phone, or via video-based conferencing. The key variable for success is the strength of our bond and the mutual sincerity of our brave engagement in the process.

If we engage in a rich, collaborative partnership with each other, you’ll find the space and support to:

awaken to new levels of your love, wisdom and creativity
identify and embrace your Soul's curriculum in this lifetime
compassionately release unconscious patterns that no longer serve you
step into a new paradigm of leading your life from clarity and authenticity
explore new levels of impact and contribution, grounded in your true Soul gifts

If you’re ready to wholeheartedly embrace the next season of your life's expression, I invite you to join with me in a grounded journey of healing, awakening and leadership. With the support of our partnership of sincerity and bravery, you’ll be empowered to consciously access and bring into expression new levels of aliveness and contribution.

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"I am so appreciative of your style as a therapist...

...so gentle, yet strong, and so incredibly intuitive. I have received so many blessings over the last few years from our work together. The sacred space you have held for my process of growth and learning has allowed me to see in myself what you see in me: my beauty, strength, vulnerability, gentleness, and even my child-like innocence through which I’ve learned to see the world.”

~ Tammi Scott, Relationship Coach

Introducing the Joy of my life...

As beloved spiritual partners, Joy Taylor and I offer a range of transformational programs and events designed to inspire and support those with a sincere desire to create a mature, loving and committed long-term relationship.

Are you yearning to open to your next level of intimacy?

In the journey of loving partnership, it’s not uncommon to find ourselves yearning for something more—a deeper connection, a truer expression of partnership, or a new beginning with your current relationship that feels aligned with your heart’s vision. Whether you’re navigating the world of dating or looking to enrich your existing relationship, we invite you to learn more about our programs that support opening to a more evolved, authentic experience of loving partnership.

In all of our work with singles and couples, we guide you to open your heart to the possibility of love that is more awake, intentional and compassionate, where both partners are profoundly seen, understood, and celebrated for who they truly are.

Each summer, we offer our in-person SAYING YES TO LOVE Conscious Singles Retreat, a transformative weekend retreat designed for singles with a sincere desire to welcome the partner of their dreams into their lives. We assist singles to explore opening their hearts to new depths of awareness, intention, and vulnerability. This highly experiential weekend offers a safe space to uncover the patterns and blocks that may be holding one back from successfully attracting a more vibrant, heartfelt and truly aligned partner. This year's in-person gathering will be held June 20-22 at an idyllic private sanctuary in Ashland, Oregon.

We’re also excited to announce the launch of our new monthly offering, THE REAL US Relationship Workshop Series, to be available both in-person and online beginning in January, 2025. Designed for both singles and couples, each month we’ll be exploring new frontiers of intimacy centered around a distinctive theme. Some themes include: how to embrace loving partnership as a spiritual practice rooted in love and truth; navigating relationship conflicts with skill and compassion so they actually deepen intimacy; etc.

If you’re called to embrace the conscious journey of healing, awakening and fulfillment that are available through intimate relationship, Joy and I warmly invite you to check out and attend one of our offerings.

SAYING YES TO LOVE Conscious Singles Retreat

The Conscious Relationship Workshop Series

I have served as a keynote speaker and workshop designer/facilitator for large gatherings all around the world. If you are crafting an inspirational event for your organization—anywhere from a keynote speech to a week-long, experiential conference workshop—I specialize in customizing themes tailored to your specific audience.

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The Real You Book by Gavin Frye, Spiritual Therapist & Leadership Mentor

Leading Your Life From Your Authentic Self

This groundbreaking exploration of the Authentic Self flows from my 40 years experience as a licensed spiritual therapist and leadership mentor to entrepreneurs. The Real You is a comprehensive work that illuminates and makes accessible the universal path of the Authentic Self.

Each and every person living on the planet has a unique and natural Authentic Self—an eternal presence—that longs to be known, breathed into and lived from. This core of our nature is characterized by love, wisdom and compassion. The Real You is about reconnecting with this dynamic inner presence and following its lead to transform every aspect of your life.

Dive Deeper into Authentic Leadership

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VIDEOS

Below are a few selections from my Reflections on Authentic Living video series: